As adults, many of us don’t even fathom playing with toys  — but hello, people, what about the best sex toys? That’s right, I’m talking about anal sex toys, clitoral massagers, and even thrusting vibrators. If any of those three words made you blush or do a double take, then good  — I have your attention and I’m doing my job.

As a wellness writer, I cover a variety of beats surrounding health and wellness, but I’ve recently been covering more sexual health topics. (You can thank me later.) When you’ve already covered topics like the benefits of going braless, female masturbation, nocturnal orgasms, sex after a season of celibacy, and sleeping naked, you have to eventually start covering other topics that are, dare I say it, a little juicier. Cue the elusive G spot, a guide to orgasms, and signs you’ve had an orgasm. 

Now’s the perfect time for an article like this to drop because yeah, February 14 — but honestly, it doesn’t matter if it’s V-Day or some idle Tuesday. There’s no better time to grab one of the best new sex toys and hit the sheets. Whether it’s partner play or a solo sexual endeavor, here are some of the best new sex toys. (Yes, this list includes the best solo sex toys.) I got you, boo!

Best new sex toys

Anal sex toys

Yep, that is right folks  — we’re going all in and kicking it off with anal sex toys because what better way to start off than with some back-door action? From anal dildos to anal plugs to anal vibrators, explore more with an array of anal sex toys. A few fun brands offer anal toys to satisfy all couples, as well as those who want to introduce anal play to their solo sex. Check out some of the best new sex toys for your derriere right here. Oh, and since the anus isn’t self-lubricating, don’t forget the lube like GLEAM, a water-based lubricant.

Clitoral massager

Orgasm through vaginal penetration is achieved by only 18% of women, which means there are a fair few women who are going to need some extra stimulation to reach the big “O.” If you fall into that camp, no worries — try the Bess 2 Clitoral Massager from ZALO USA.

With four added attachments including anal beads and G spot targeting, the Bess 2 includes a heating function to give you that real-life feeling. Whether you’re looking for G spot targeting or pinpointed stimulation, take sensual self-care to the next level with the Bess 2. It’s sure to deliver orgasmic results.

Travel vibrator

If you’re living that jet-setter lifestyle and are always in the air and on the go, don’t let travel be a total cock block and stop you from getting off. Opt for the Lip Stick by Voila. This discreet travel vibrator is excellent for overnight stays. Whether it’s one night or one week away for an extended holiday, this simple design is beautiful, discreet, and elegant. The best part is, it’s completely TSA-friendly. Who says you need a partner to become a member of the mile-high club?  If you need some more discreet options for your on-the-go lifestyle, check out Voila’s best new sex toys right here.

Waterproof vibrator

Perhaps you prefer to take your sexual endeavors to the bathroom where you can get it on with your partner or yourself in the shower or tub. You lucky duck you — but seriously, grab the Lucky Ducky. This waterproof vibrator is an ultra-cute bathroom companion that’s completely waterproof. Not only can it get wet while getting you wet, but it can be fully submerged without damaging the electronics. Rub a dub, dub.

Dildo and vibrator for pregnancy

Pregnant? Congratulations! Also, hello hormones. With your ever-changing hormone levels, you may find yourself feeling friskier than usual — and hey, that’s completely normal. So is masturbation while pregnant. (Yes, it’s perfectly safe too.) Ariel Sernek, MD, of pelvic floor physical therapy at RecoverRX, explains that masturbation and using a sex toy are safe during pregnancy for both mom and baby. 

“[The] baby is safe within the uterus beyond the vaginal canal where masturbation and [the] sex toy use may occur,” says Sernek. “Plus, masturbation helps the baby adjust to changes in heart rate and teaches the baby to acclimate to stress better when they are born.” Sernek says this happens in masturbation as well as during exercise.

Sernek also says the pelvic floor muscles are actually being worked during masturbation and can help strengthen the muscles — or on the other hand, once climax is reached, masturbation can help decrease tone in a tight pelvic floor. See, there are even benefits to masturbating while pregnant.

However, with an ever-growing baby bump, you may have a tricky time getting off. This is where the Smartee comes in (literally and figuratively). This dildo and vibrator is perfect for those who are pregnant or anyone who wants more comfort and mobility when seeking some self-pleasure thanks to its added handle design. How convenient!

Note: Sernek says it wouldn’t be appropriate for someone to use penetrative masturbation if their birth provider has put them on pelvic rest typically for conditions that may cause preterm labor (i.e., cervical insufficiency, placental abruption, or placenta previa). When in doubt, talk to your ob-gyn.

Stainless steel sex toys

Are you feeling frisky and futuristic? Meet L’ACIER, the world’s first vibrating stainless steel dildo. Enjoy the ride because L’ACIER delivers on ecstasy with its Capo, Reverb, and Slide form factors. Why choose one when you can collect all three and have the trifecta of sexual pleasure for all of your sexcapades?

Thrusting dildos

Hey, you work hard enough as it is. Whether it’s at home, the gym, the office, or maybe all three, the last place you want to put in work is in the bedroom. (Okay, not all the time, but sometimes.) For those days when you just don’t have it in you to do you, reach for The Thruster. Pretty much the future of self-stimulation, these thrusting dildos come with the cutest names, including the Frankie, Jackie, Nanci, Sammi, and even the Walter, each corresponding to an assortment of functions to complement what you’re looking for in a best solo sex toy.

These thrusting dildos have a great assortment of life-like, 7-inch, mini, and oversized dildos, created with the company’s unique body-safe silicone. Each dildo offers a variety of features from ultra-flexible thrusting action to six to 10+ speeds, prime suction cups, and rechargeable batteries. Oh yeah, and did I mention it thrusts so you don’t have to do any of the work yourself? Just sit back, relax, and get busy without having to get too busy.

The best sex toys of 2023

Whether you’re looking for the perfect naughty gift for your bestie’s bachelorette or bachelor party, or simply want to give your partner something extra special for Valentine’s Day this year, a sex toy is a really good idea. It’s literally everything the experts say a perfect gift should be: fun, thoughtful, and useful. Plus, if you’re giving it to your partner, it’s the type of gift you’re likely to benefit from as well. Even if you don’t have a partner, put the pleasure in your own hands with one of the best solo sex toys around.